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Friend paying the bill at a restaurant bar.GeorgeRudy

A classic example of this affliction: A guy asks his friend to cover half of the $3 fee for an advance reservation at a golf course.

Can technology be exacerbating this kind of cheapness? With banks starting to ease off their fees for Interac money e-transfers, these replacements for cheques and cash make it super easy to split the bill at dinner, pay your friend for the cost of tickets to an event and so on. When you're using an app like e-transfer on a mobile phone, tablet or computer, it's as easy to send a small amount as it is a large one.

The Moneyologist, a columnist for the MarketWatch website who looks at money and ethics, says apps like e-transfer actually make us more accountable for our portion of shared expenses. No longer can you say you forgot your wallet, or you'll pay up later. But friends don't ask friends to split $3 charges. This much is clear.

At what cost does it become OK to ask your friend to split the cost with you? Is it $10…$20…$30…$50? Send me your thoughts at rcarrick@globeandmail.com – if I get enough responses I will report back in a future edition of this newsletter.

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