A recent study suggests that money is the top reason for strains in a relationship, ahead of differing goals for the future, career decisions, politics and kids. What's the top predictor of a disagreement about money? A husband thinking his wife spends too much.
Meanwhile, the biggest contribution to stress for wives was having a husband who sees them as a spendthrift. The idea that women are avid, free-spending shoppers seems to be ingrained in our thinking about money. Based on a recent experience at a drugstore, I would like to suggest that there's no difference between men and women as spenders and consumers.
Buying some razors, I noticed a new shelf of skin care products for men. Shaving cream used to be the only choice. Now, there are lots of products for moisturizing leathery, macho faces that used to go au natural. Clearly, men are now buying some of the same facial-care products as women. Might men as interested in shopping and buying stuff than women overall?
Think of the German cars men buy, the carbon fibre bikes, the 20-year-old scotch, the gimmicky golf clubs, the skinny pants and the stylin' short-back-and-sides haircuts. Guys, you like to spend just as much as women. Accept it and stop acting like your wife is the guilty one.
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Students and taxes
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Must reading for current or would-be landlords on the rules that must be followed with respect to tenants.
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