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Selling their Toronto home put them in a five-star retirement residence

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He's 97 years old, and his wife is 94. After selling their house in Toronto, they're now living in what their son describes as a "five-star seniors residence with fine white table cloths."

A couple of weeks ago, this newsletter looked at how hard it is to benefit from having your house soar in value. Sure, your house is worth a lot, but so is everything else. There's no easy way to cash out, unless you move to a cheaper community. Or, you move to a retirement home.

The story of the couple in their 90s was reported to me by their son, John Stapleton, whose name you may recognize from previous editions of the newsletter. He's a social policy consultant who specializes in retirement strategizing for low-income people.

Mr. Stapleton said in an e-mail that he recently moved his parents into their two-bedroom unit at a retirement residence. "To bankroll it, I just sold their 2,900-square-foot legal duplex in the Upper Beach (a Toronto neighborhood) for $1.2-million," he wrote. "This will pay for 10-plus years of $100,000-a-year care in case they live that long."

Mr. Stapleton said his parents paid $65,000 for the home in 1977 and were partly persuaded to put the home on the market by the big price gain. Now, after selling, they're living in comfort. This is definitely an exception to my observation that owning in a hot real estate market is an overrated form of wealth.

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