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Julie Cugali is recovering from postpartum depression after the birth of her son, Alex, five years ago. Anne-Marie Jackson/The Globe and Mail

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Julie Cugalj had a storybook pregnancy: She was one of those mothers-to-be who glowed. "It was the most blissful nine months of my life," she says.

The delivery itself, on Halloween night of 2004, was also a breeze, only four hours from beginning to end.

But the new mother had trouble breastfeeding her son, Alex. She was suddenly and profoundly exhausted, and wanted to sleep day and night. Her appetite vanished, along with her confidence.

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"I could feel myself tumbling down the slope, but I couldn't reverse it," Ms. Cugalj says. "You come to a crisis point very quickly. You lose your sense of self-worth."

In retrospect, the 32-year-old Gatineau, Que., mother suffered classic symptoms of postpartum depression but, like many, she put on her happy mom face and struggled with the demons of depression behind closed doors.

Valerie Whiffen, a Vancouver-based psychologist, says internalizing and hiding the problem is a common reaction. "The main reason women don't seek professional help for their depression is they don't want to admit that they're not happy about the joyful event of motherhood like everyone expects them to be," she says.

When they do reach out for help, their concerns are often sloughed off by friends, family and health professionals. "Everybody says, 'It's just hormones,' but there's absolutely no scientific basis for this," Dr. Whiffen says.

While many new mothers do suffer the baby blues - a week or so of hormonal readjustment after birth that is marked by mood swings - that is not to be confused with postpartum depression, she says. Postpartum is depression like any other - a mental illness triggered by stressful life events - and motherhood can be a big stressor.

About 2.5 per cent of women of child-bearing age in the general population suffer from severe depression; in the postpartum period, that jumps to 10 to 15 per cent.

When Ms. Cugalj finally sought help, five months after Alex's birth, the doctor prescribed antidepressants. They didn't work. Over the next couple of years, she would try a dozen or so medications, but her condition worsened. Depression interfered with her ability to bond with her son, strained her marriage and affected her work.

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"The mental-health care provided by the system was horrendous. We screamed from the rooftops for help and no one listened," Ms. Cugalj says.

Only when she sought psychological help did the cloud begin to lift. "To be honest, I was a skeptic about therapy: I mean, how can you get better by just talking? But it worked."

Dr. Whiffen says therapy often succeeds where drugs do not because it can get to the root causes of the depression - the overwhelming demands on women and the guilt they feel when motherhood is not all rosy.

"When a woman gets depressed, it ripples out into every relationship in her life," she says. "In particular, depression gets really tangled up in marriage."

One of the best predictors of who will suffer postpartum depression is whether a woman's relationship is strained before the birth, she says. The other is a history of mental-health problems prior to pregnancy.

Kristy Reesor suffers from bipolar disorder so she was monitored closely during her pregnancy, but it went well and, despite the stresses of being a single mom with a colicky baby, so did motherhood.

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"For the first three months, things were great. I figured I was in the clear," she says.

But the lack of sleep started to catch up with her, and then the intrusive thoughts (a classic symptom of postpartum) came. Ms. Reesor worried obsessively about her daughter dying of sudden infant death syndrome, and when she picked up Cypress, she had a fear of dropping her.

"These were horrific thoughts. You don't even want to admit having them because you think they will take the baby away," says the 32-year-old from Red Deer, Alta. "You feel like the most horrible mother in the world."

Ms. Reesor sought counselling and joined a support group for women suffering postpartum depression. "The support group was huge for me. To hear other moms echo my fears and worries took away the shame."

The group also became a network of friends that helped break her isolation.

Ms. Reesor refused antidepressants, not wanting to risk harm to the baby she was breastfeeding. She opted instead for nutritional supplements, an approach she has used for her underlying condition, bipolar disorder, She has remained off drugs and symptom-free for seven years.

"There's definitely a link between nutrition and depression," says Brenda Leung, a PhD candidate at the University of Calgary who is part of a research team conducting a study on the links between diet and depression during pregnancy and in the postpartum period.

Ms. Leung's research to date shows women with postpartum depression have very low levels of omega-3 fatty acids (found principally in dark fish such as tuna and leafy greens such as Swiss chard).

In the study, women will get fish oil supplements to see if it can help stave off depression, just as they take folic acid to prevent birth defects in their babies.

"Everybody wants a magic bullet to prevent postpartum, but nature isn't that simple," Ms. Leung says. "Still, we think that good nutrition is a way of preventing depression in pregnant women and new moms."

Ms. Cugalj knew her depression was lifting when she began to enjoy food again, when playing with her son became a pleasure not a chore and when getting out of bed each morning was not an ordeal.

"It took about eight months of therapy, but I had drive again. I was able to make plans again instead of being in this constant crisis mode," she says.

Now, like many couples with one child, Ms. Cugalj and her husband are having the "should-we-have-another-one" discussions. "Having a baby is the million-dollar question for every couple, but for us it's a two-million-dollar question because of everything I went through.

"There's a whole lot of fear in going back to that dark place," she says. "But every day I'm a little more willing to take that risk."

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Resource: For more information, click here for the Canadian Psychological Association's fact sheet, "What is Postpartum Depression"

André Picard is The Globe and Mail's public health reporter.

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